Love Intelligence Test (LQ)

1. When something bothers me in a relationship, I bring it up rather than letting it fester

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2. I can explain my feelings clearly without blaming or criticizing my partner

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3. When my partner is talking, I focus on truly understanding instead of preparing my response

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4. I'm comfortable asking for what I need instead of hoping my partner will just know

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5. During disagreements, I try to find common ground rather than prove I'm right

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6. When my partner is upset, my first instinct is to be there for them — not to fix the problem

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7. I can sit with my partner's sadness or frustration without trying to change how they feel

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8. I remember the small details about what matters to my partner and check in on them

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9. I validate my partner's feelings even when I don't fully agree with their perspective

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10. My partner has told me they feel safe opening up to me about difficult things

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11. I can say no to my partner without feeling guilty or worrying they'll be upset

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12. I respect my partner's need for alone time without taking it personally

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13. I don't feel the need to check my partner's phone or social media to feel secure

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14. I maintain my own friendships and hobbies even when I'm in a serious relationship

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15. When my partner crosses a line, I address it calmly instead of exploding or shutting down

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16. I'm willing to change a habit if my partner explains how it affects them

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17. I see conflicts as opportunities to understand my partner better, not threats to the relationship

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18. I actively look for ways to keep the relationship fresh rather than letting it run on autopilot

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19. When life throws a curveball, my partner and I adapt together rather than pulling apart

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20. I encourage my partner to chase their own goals, even if it means less time together

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